Between 65 And Death<\/p>\n
Many of us are between 65 and death . An old friend sent me this excellent list for aging , and , I have to agree it\u2019s good advice to follow \u2026 particularly the item 19 .<\/p>\n
01 \u2013 It\u2019s time to use the money you saved up . Use it and enjoy it . Don\u2019t just keep it for those who may have no notion of the sacrifices you made to get it . Remember there is nothing more dangerous than a son or daughter-in-law with big ideas for your hard-earned capital . Warning : This is also a bad time for investments , even if it seems wonderful or fool-proof . They only bring problems and worries . This is a time for you to enjoy some peace and quiet .<\/p>\n
02 \u2013 Stop worrying about the financial situation of your children and grandchildren , and don\u2019t feel bad spending your money on yourself . You\u2019ve taken care of them for many years , and you\u2019ve taught them what you could . You gave them an education , food , shelter and support . The responsibility is now theirs to earn their own money .<\/p>\n
03 \u2013 Keep a healthy life , without great physical effort . Do moderate exercise ( like walking every day ) , eat well and get your sleep . It\u2019s easy to become sick , and it gets harder to remain healthy . That is why you need to keep yourself in good shape and be aware of your medical and physical needs . Keep in touch with your doctor , do tests even when you\u2019re feeling well . Stay informed .<\/p>\n
04 \u2013 Always buy the best , most beautiful items for your significant other . The key goal is to enjoy your money with your partner . One day one of you will miss the other , and the money will not provide any comfort then , enjoy it together .<\/p>\n
05 \u2013 Don\u2019t stress over the little things . You\u2019ve already overcome so much in your life . You have good memories and bad ones , but the important thing is the present . Don\u2019t let the past drag you down and don\u2019t let the future frighten you . Feel good in the now . Small issues will soon be forgotten .<\/p>\n
06 \u2013 Regardless of age , always keep love alive . Love your partner , love life , love your family , love your neighbor and remember : A man is not old as long as he has intelligence and affection .<\/p>\n
07 \u2013 Be proud , both inside and out . Don\u2019t stop going to your hair salon or barber , do your nails , go to the dermatologist and the dentist , keep your perfumes and creams well stocked . When you are well-maintained on the outside , it seeps in , making you feel proud and strong .<\/p>\n
08 \u2013 Don\u2019t lose sight of fashion trends for your age , but keep your own sense of style . There\u2019s nothing worse than an older person trying to wear the current fashion among youngsters . You\u2019ve developed your own sense of what looks good on you \u2013 keep it and be proud of it . It\u2019s part of who you are .<\/p>\n
09 \u2013 Always stay up-to-date . Read newspapers , watch the news . Go online and read what people are saying . Make sure you have an active email account and try to use some of those social networks . You\u2019ll be surprised what old friends you\u2019ll meet . Keeping in touch with what is going on and with the people you know is important at any age .<\/p>\n
10 \u2013 Respect the younger generation and their opinions . They may not have the same ideals as you , but they are the future , and will take the world in their direction . Give advice , not criticism , and try to remind them that yesterday\u2019s wisdom still applies today .<\/p>\n
11 \u2013 Never use the phrase In my time . Your time is now . As long as you\u2019re alive , you are part of this time . You may have been younger , but you are still you now , having fun and enjoying life .<\/p>\n
12 \u2013 Some people embrace their golden years , while others become bitter and surly . Life is too short to waste your days on the latter . Spend your time with positive , cheerful people , it\u2019ll rub off on you and your days will seem that much better . Spending your time with bitter people will make you older and harder to be around .<\/p>\n
13 \u2013 Do not surrender to the temptation of living with your children or grandchildren ( if you have a financial choice , that is ) . Sure , being surrounded by family sounds great , but we all need our privacy . They need theirs and you need yours . If you\u2019ve lost your partner ( our deepest condolences ) , then find a person to move in with you and help out . Even then , do so only if you feel you really need the help or do not want to live alone .<\/p>\n
14 \u2013 Don\u2019t abandon your hobbies . If you don\u2019t have any , make new ones . You can travel , hike , cook , read , dance . You can adopt a cat or a dog , grow a garden , play cards , checkers , chess , dominoes , golf . You can paint , volunteer or just collect certain items . Find something you like and spend some real time having fun with it .<\/p>\n
15 \u2013 Even if you don\u2019t feel like it , try to accept invitations . Baptisms , graduations , birthdays , weddings , conferences . Try to go . Get out of the house , meet people you haven\u2019t seen in a while , experience something new ( or something old ) . But don\u2019t get upset when you\u2019re not invited . Some events are limited by resources , and not everyone can be hosted . The important thing is to leave the house from time to time . Go to museums , go walk through a field . Get out there .<\/p>\n
16 \u2013 Be a conversationalist . Talk less and listen more . Some people go on and on about the past , not caring if their listeners are really interested . That\u2019s a great way of reducing their desire to speak with you . Listen first and answer questions , but don\u2019t go off into long stories unless asked to . Speak in courteous tones and try not to complain or criticize too much unless you really need to . Try to accept situations as they are . Everyone is going through the same things , and people have a low tolerance for hearing complaints . Always find some good things to say as well .<\/p>\n
17 \u2013 Pain and discomfort go hand in hand with getting older . Try not to dwell on them but accept them as a part of the cycle of life we\u2019re all going through . Try to minimize them in your mind . They are not who you are , they are something that life added to you . If they become your entire focus , you lose sight of the person you used to be .<\/p>\n
18 \u2013 If you\u2019ve been offended by someone \u2013 forgive them . If you\u2019ve offended someone \u2013 apologize . Don\u2019t drag around resentment with you . It only serves to make you sad and bitter . It doesn\u2019t matter who was right . Someone once said : Holding a grudge is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die . Don\u2019t take that poison . Forgive , forget and move on with your life .<\/p>\n
19 \u2013 If you have a strong belief , savor it . But don\u2019t waste your time trying to convince others . They will make their own choices no matter what you tell them , and it will only bring you frustration . Live your faith and set an example . Live true to your beliefs and let that memory sway them .<\/p>\n
20 \u2013 Laugh A Lot . Laugh at everything . Remember , you are one of the lucky ones . You managed to have a life , a long one . Many never get to this age , never get to experience a full life . But you did . So what\u2019s not to laugh about ? Find the humor in your situation .<\/p>\n
21 \u2013 Take no notice of what others say about you and even less notice of what they might be thinking . They\u2019ll do it anyway , and you should have pride in yourself and what you\u2019ve achieved . Let them talk and don\u2019t worry . They have no idea about your history , your memories and the life you\u2019ve lived so far . There\u2019s still much to be written , so get busy writing and don\u2019t waste time thinking about what others might think . Now is the time to be at rest , at peace and as happy as you can be !<\/p>\n
And , Remember : Life is too short to drink bad wine ! ! ! Or , in my case , bad Arnold Palmer .
\nSteve Korker<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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